Girl to chat with skype
Either way you're probably not going to like the answer, but if it was a case of skype chatting and left at that, it may just have been a form of sexual release that he didn't really see as real/ meaning anything.If he was actually video calling with the girl though, then that, I feel, would be a significant breach of trust.So we have been together for just over a year and i came across a conversation on his skype with a random girl he met on the internet..probably wouldnt have bothered me but the stuff that he was saying was just horrible, he was telling to take her clothes off and do things for him.After i confronted him he was really upset and genuinely sorry saying he didnt want to loose me however i cant seem to get it out of my head.jeez, if my boyfriend did that he would be dumped immediately!If you can forgive it and not think about it again/trust him to not do it again then your relationship could still work.h tol me that it wasn't him and that it was just a little stupid mistake.
sounds like the trust may be degraded by quite a bit there. I wouldn't be impressed by that, and would personally wonder what he'd do/may already have done with a girl in person...
You also have to remember that if you choose to forgive someone, you have to do that, you can't hold their mistakes against them, you've got to learn to forgive and then try to forget. From experience, I can say with some confidence that however upsetting uncovering something like this is, it is often just the tip of the iceberg.
I've had long-term relationships with 2 serial cheaters (One was a 4 year relationship, had been cheating on me for at least 6 months, the other was a 2 year relationship, he was cheating for almost a year), and both times I had no idea (I'd say I was a pretty intelligent person, these men were maticulous at covering their tracks, in both cases the other girl (s) didn't know he had a girlfriend).
To find that out we played along and the following conversation ensued: At first sight it appears to be someone looking for companion.
But the dialogue is suspiciously general, questions are never really answered and the responses don’t allow for a meaningful discussion of any kind.