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PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.
All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers.
She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.
Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy.
It doesn’t matter what she says as far as “I don’t want another child” or “I can’t get pregnant” or “I’m using contraception” or “I wouldn’t ask anything of you.” Women lie or change their minds about this sort of thing all of time**, and even if she doesn’t, a court can make you be Daddy, financially anyway.7) You don’t want to be divorced.
Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.8) You don’t want to deal with the child’s father.
Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.